So. I haven’t been online much lately. Haven’t been tweeting. Haven’t been posting. And certainly haven’t been writing anything much worth reading.
I’m not exactly apologizing, because I don’t really feel bad (because life is life and children are children and people are people and those are all The Most Important) but just stating the obvious.
Life is just life, many of our days having been those I consider A Day, and we’re learning every day to find our happy in the midst of slight disorder.
{In other words? My house isn’t staying as picture pretty as my perfectionist self would like it… and I’m okay with that.}
So, since we all know I’m an expert in The Random, I’m reverting to my trusty ol’ something and nothing list. It matches the state of my brain.
A bit of this. A bit of that.
- A few weeks ago, I signed up for The Most Awesome Sewing Class Evah {along with my beloveds, Sara Sophia and Arianne}. I’ve been sewing since I was a nine years old and definitely know my way around a sewing machine, but this class is so much more than following a pattern and ending up with a dress and I want to make all the goodies listed there. The leetle issue? The class started a month ago and I have yet to do the first project. It would probably help if I, you know, actually got out my sewing machine. That’s the plan for tomorrow. I plan to, at least. But I’ll be talking about all of that a bit more next week. I plan to, at least.
- I’m in love with this song. Can’t get enough of it.
- I have so many thoughts rolling around in this brain of mine to share in this little web space and no idea how to make them travel from my head to my typing fingertips. Expect scattered thoughts around here, mmkay?
- Deployment can be hard. Because, whaddayano, six months apart (with another seven ahead of us) really does take its toll… in a million ways. The people who deployed with John and are doing normal-length Marine Corps deployments are getting ready to head home this month. John isn’t.
- I wish I had some chocolate. A candy bar of some sort. A Milky Way, maybe? Or a Reese’s Peanut Butter Cup? {what’s your fave?}
- We found out this week that my grandmother has a brain tumor… and things aren’t looking good. We’re waiting now to hear the results of further testing.
- Fall has fallen in the High Rockies. How soon is too soon to pull out the box of autumn decor?
- This has been a week of some firsts around here. But I’ll be back to talk a bit about that tomorrow. At least… I plan to.
- The end.
I’m feeling a bit disconnected from all of you these days. Will you talk to me? Tell a few randoms from your own days? Or just say hi? I miss you.
I saw that sewing class & I want to sign up so bad! But there’s a couple of problems…1) I don’t have the money for anything extra right now and 2) I don’t own a sewing machine. So hopefully I can sign up if she does it again.
I’d love to see the finished products you come up with though! :)
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Ashleigh Reply:
September 1st, 2010 at 10:48 am
Did you see the next one going up? (http://bit.ly/bG3s29) It doesn’t require much sewing and the projects are to.die.for. I want to sign up for that one, too… but I imagine my husband would raise his eyebrows at the expense, being I haven’t even started the one in which I’m already enrolled. :P
I’m thinking of doing a little feature each week where I show what I’ve done so far for accountability’s sake… but not sure? I’m, obviously, far from a craft blogger, ha.
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Mmm…frozen york peppermint patty!
Praying for you military wives so much!!! Three amazing friends all have husbands gone…one will have their first child this week with no daddy to hear those first cries. Breaks my heart for her! Praying God will show His sustaining strength and peace in a very real way to you special gals and your guys, too!
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Ashleigh Reply:
September 1st, 2010 at 10:54 am
OH MY. I need a York. NEED. And frozen? Perfection.
Thank you, thank you, for your prayers. And, truly, I am adding your friend to my prayer time list, because nothing breaks my heart more than thinking of a baby born with their daddy across the globe. One of my dearest friends is preparing to do that, too, and my heart bleeds, just thinking of it.
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Hi Ashleigh!
Can I just say that I love that you didn’t apologize for being away? I *really* love that.
Other thoughts:
* I wish I knew how to sew.
* I’m kind-of a chocolate snob. My favorite? Quality dark chocolate, high in cacao.
* I’m sorry about your grandma.
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Ashleigh Reply:
September 1st, 2010 at 11:03 am
I used to apologize. Now? After doing this blogging thing for almost six years total, I just don’t see the point. Because I’m really not sorry and I refuse to let myself feel guilted into blogging! Someday, blogging will die off {it’s just reality} and my life will continue. And really? There are so many blogs to read that me posting less is really doing everyone a favor–one less post to read, ha!
Sewing IS the best. I just haven’t done it in forever! But it really isn’t difficult to learn–you SHOULD.
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I think I never left a comment here, so it’s really time to say how much I love your blog! And don’t worry about posting maybe less (I didn’t notice, anyway!) – I think it’s not bad to be offline sometimes.
I am so sorry about your grandma. I hope everything works out fine for all of you. Remember – you are not alone!
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Ashleigh Reply:
September 1st, 2010 at 11:05 am
YAY for first time comments! I love to meet the people who read the words I toss up on the screen here. :)
Thank you so much for your kind words… and yes, it is good, I think, to step back from the online world from time to time and be restful. The pace here can be mind-numbing!
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Martina Reply:
September 2nd, 2010 at 1:51 am
Thank you! I was surprised and moved you took the time to answer every comment. What a great way to connect with your readers!
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Hey Ashleigh,
I would pull out the Fall things pronto! Autumn is such a short season that you should enjoy it the minute you are ready.
Praying for you and the boys as you are missing John.
Also praying for your grandmother. What a shocker this must have been. I read your Mom’s post yesterday.
Becky K.
Hospitality Lane
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Ashleigh Reply:
September 1st, 2010 at 11:07 am
I think I’m going to pull out that box today and start putting out our gold colored pretties… we’re having soup for dinner and that alone makes me happy! We’re due to get snow up here by the end of October, so I don’t have very long!
Thank you for your prayers for us… I’m so humbled by the number of people who carry us to Jesus in prayer. The way He sustains us and grows us is just blowing my mind these days. <3
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September 1st sounds like a great day to pull out the fall decor. Especially when you live in a place where it’s not still 90 degrees every doggone day…(it’ll be summer here for another month). Randoms from me:
* my 4 year old apparently got up in the wee hours, turned her light on and did who-knows-what, then fell back asleep, since her light was on when the rest of us got up. Yeah, she’s still asleep.
* We want to plant a fall garden and can’t get around to deciding what to plant.
*I love Reese’s cups. Tired of pining for chocolate when the kids went to bed, I bought a big bag of the mini ones and hid it on the top shelf, behind the flour. :-)
Does John get to choose orders when he gets back? Do you know where you’ll move?
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Ashleigh Reply:
September 1st, 2010 at 11:09 am
I think I’ll pull it out today… but I’m going to make myself not fret if I don’t get all the decor set up in one afternoon. I must talk to myself, perfectionist that I am. :)
My two year old does that with his light. It is quite amusing, crazy child that he is.
We don’t have official orders for our next duty station, but we do have a pretty good idea of where we’ll be. Once we get the orders, I’ll start talking about it here, but as it is, well, you know how the military is! Nothing is certain until it’s already happened!
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As soon as you feel the urge, you get the fall stuff out. Because as much as I love summer, fall stuff is soooooooo pretty and you can keep it up forever long and not be tired of it!
Sending you hugs…and I’d send you a recees and tell you to make a s’more of it, cuz it’s that yummy.
And I have material to make curtains that may or may not be about four years old now….and I made a dress a few years back that I LOVE, but it’s so short I can only wear it if I am standing and with my hubby….got a little bit of the length wrong ;)
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Jessica Bish Reply:
September 1st, 2010 at 7:25 am
throw on a pair of leggings or tights under it and you’ve got yourself a new fall dress!
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Ashleigh Reply:
September 1st, 2010 at 11:11 am
YES! That’s what I was thinking! I don’t do the leggings bit much in the summer (for no reason other than that I just haven’t), but it seems like a perfect fall look to me.
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Ashleigh Reply:
September 1st, 2010 at 11:10 am
I want a s’more with a Reese’s!! I’ve never had that and ohmyword… sounds heavenly!
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I do miss you. I check this blog everyday when I get to work (because I dont want to be here anymore). I am slowly working towards becoming a stay-at-home mom. Lord willing – within the year I’ll be home. My random thoughts that I’ve been having all stem from reading “Beautiful in God’s Eyes – by Elizabeth George” Amazing, wonderful book. I am struggling with getting everything done each day, and trying to find a way to bring in extra income once I’m home. I am contemplating starting a blog (but will I make money), selling homemade vanilla, or SOMETHING… anything…. but dont know if I have any talents that are worth anything.
Hugs to you…. I honestly dont know how you ladies do it on your own. I wish I was close by to give you a break sometime…. all I can do is offer up prayers for you.
God Bless
Jessica
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Kerry Reply:
September 1st, 2010 at 10:51 am
I’m in the same boat! Working, but knowing there’s an end soon. I’m 7 months pregnant so that’s my ‘exit strategy’. Also considering starting a blog and have so many ideas. There’s a lot of inspiration out there.
Don’t get discouraged. You’ll be home with kiddos soon!
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Ashleigh Reply:
September 1st, 2010 at 12:33 pm
YOU are a treasure. I love seeing your name pop up in my inbox. :)
I think you should sell the vanilla on Etsy. I’m a die-hard Etsy fan and I would SO buy your vanilla. (I’m a vanilla snob.)
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Jessica Bish Reply:
September 1st, 2010 at 1:36 pm
aw thank you. That made my heart swell just a bit…. :)
There are just so many thoughts running around in my head right now – so hard to keep track of them.
If you’re ever in the mood for a road-trip let me know, we’d love to have you guys for a weekend!
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First, I like that song! I haven’t heard it in awhile… I understand what you mean about feeling a bit disconnected. Like everything else, I blame it on the weather! lol. My prayers are with you and your family during this time. We went through the same thing (except it was breast cancer) with my G-ma a few years ago… It is difficult. I pray God will fill you will joy and peace.
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Ashleigh Reply:
September 1st, 2010 at 12:34 pm
Thanks oodles for the prayers. <3 <3
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Praying for you and your family! A big thank you to your husband for his service to our country and to you for the sacrifices you have to make for him to be able to do it.
I am in love with the song “Lead Me” by Sanctus Real right now.
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Ashleigh Reply:
September 1st, 2010 at 12:34 pm
Oh, must listen to it. I don’t think I’ve heard that one. I get stuck on songs and listen to them nonstop for DAYS.
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What a beautiful song!! iTunes, here I come. I think it will be my new theme song. I will be praying for your grandma & family. I just bought some new pumpkin & autumney candles… I’ve been burning them in the house to get me in the spirits & ease into fall. I LOVE this time of year! (Even though it’s not quite here yet!) And it’s never here in So Cal the way it is in your new home, I bet it’s beautiful! Now, what did you want us to share again? LOL I haven’t been online much lately, and when I do, I’m limiting my time a lot- but your is one of the first places I visit when I do decide to peek at some blogs! :)
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Ashleigh Reply:
September 1st, 2010 at 12:36 pm
Isn’t it awesome? I’ve had it on repeat for days. But I’m just crazy like that.
I just bought some spicey candles and I’m making soup for dinner tonight because AH. LOVE.
Miss you muchly… wish you still were just up the coast for a playdate. Well, I guess YOU are still just up the coast. It’s me who is gone. :)
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randoms from abby:
-heading to NYC for hubs birthday and first trip this saturday
-going to eat some cupcakes and street food
-i haven’t showered yet today
-something fun to brighten you’re day if you haven’t seen this: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZYL3j27sSH8&feature=player_embedded
love!
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Ashleigh Reply:
September 1st, 2010 at 12:44 pm
a) HOORAY for street food and Happy Bday to your guy
b)I haven’t showered either, even after doing P90X, which is ick.
c)I ADORE and I love you even more for knowing I’d love that vid. I’ve watched it three times cuz it makes me grin.
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I know what you mean about learning to be content with less-than-perfect! It’s the only way to maintain one’s sanity. :-)
My scattered thoughts in response to yours:
I love your curtains.
I’m so sorry to hear about your grandmother.
My husband’s brother just left for a seven-month tour in Afghanistan. He doesn’t have a family. I can’t imagine how you’re getting through this. Truly, I can’t.
It must be so strange to be in such a cool place (as in the weather) after being in Cali.
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Ashleigh Reply:
September 1st, 2010 at 12:48 pm
I think you and I think alike. :)
Those curtains were here when we moved in and I love them so much I want to take the whole window with us when we leave here. Our room is airy fairy feeling, all shades of blue and white, and combined with the old windows in this house? Perfection!
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Hey, it is okay to, you know, just be into real life and forget about us :) *hugs*
Hoping and praying for the best for your grandma.
That is a beautiful song.
Yeah, get the sewing machine out! sounds like it will be fun! and we can’t wait to see what you create!
Fall…seems to be creeping in here too, about a month earlier than norm. Like we’ve been saying all year–it has been a strange year.
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Ashleigh Reply:
September 1st, 2010 at 12:50 pm
I’m so in love with fall. When I was growing up, our summers in the desert were SO HOT that the tiniest hint of fall was the promise of cool weather to come and our family ate.it.up!
I’m doing a little bit of cleaning today so I can feel ready to sew, but I plan to have it out and ready to go by tonight!
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I raided the leftover s’mores chocolate yesterday. I highly recommend it if you need a quick fix. We are hoping to get up for the fall colors in a few weeks. I’m still trying to decide which is the prettiest spot of them all and isn’t too terribly plagued by bark beetles. That’s my random thoughts for today. ;-)
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Ashleigh Reply:
September 1st, 2010 at 12:53 pm
That’s the thing–I don’t HAVE any s’mores chocolate. If I did, it would be unwrapped and IN MAH HANDS right now, ha!
I think it gets pretty in Buena Vista… and, um, maybe we should coordinate that fall colors trip? We want to do one too, and take some pretty pictures. And it would be fun with friends-we’ve-never’met. Ahem.
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Hmm…a few randoms…
- It’s weeks like this one that make me wonder why I ever had the idea that I knew how to do dressmaking.
- I am listening to the Mitford audiobooks…in reverse order. Don’t ask me why. I’m a little annoyed with myself for doing it this way.
- I ate cereal for all three meals on Monday.
- I’m leaving for Alaska in less than two weeks! Yay! Ack!
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Ashleigh Reply:
September 1st, 2010 at 12:56 pm
How goes it with the dresses? Not so great, I take it? :P
In reverse order? Girl. You be crazy.
Is the cereal thing a problem? Cuz, um, if it is, I need fixing.
(Not really–just every once in a while. :P)
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April Reply:
September 1st, 2010 at 1:39 pm
I can sew pretty much any pattern without once looking at the directions…but getting stuff to fit right is another story entirely. :-P
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Hi … Never posted before but follow your blog! Pray for you often. My dearest friend is army chaplain’s wife…. military wives have a special place in my heart.
My thoughts:
Even in the deep south (where I am) where fall won’t come until December (ha.ha.) September is ALWAYS the time for fall decorations!
Dark Chocolate Peanut M&M’s are my faves.
I want to sew… you may inspire me to pull my machine out and just do it!
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Ashleigh Reply:
September 1st, 2010 at 12:57 pm
I love first time comments! Thanks for letting me know who you are and that you read these scribbled words!
YES. Pull out your machine! And make some pretty wonderfuls! You won’t be sorry.
(says she who is still promising herself that she’ll get hers out by evening!)
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My sewing machine is out of commission and it is most dreadful. I need to sew!
I misses you too. And think of you…often.
September is fall enough for me out West. I’d pull out the goodies and enjoy it while it lasts! :) Out this way, cooling down but not fall enough for me to notice just yet.
And… something random from my corner of the world is that I’m unpacking our random boxes now. I think we have too many treasures. *sigh* ;)
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Ashleigh Reply:
September 1st, 2010 at 1:00 pm
Um, your email the other day? You have NO IDEA how perfect that was. Couldn’t even reply that day cuz I was all teary at how perfect it was. Just those words. I love you.
I KNOW we have too many treasures. We’ve talked about just selling it all to be able to be free from the stuff cycle. :P
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I always wanted to learn to sew but never had the patience. My grandmother tried to teach me to crochet once, but I wasn’t patient enough for that either!
I love any chocolate, but my real favorite is chocolate with nuts and/or coconut.
I live in southeast Tennessee and it has been unbearably hot here this summer. I’m jealous that fall has fallen where you are. Definitely get out the fall decor!
I will pray for your grandmother. I lost my grandmother to melanoma about 5 years ago. It’s very difficult to watch someone you love suffer. I will pray for you and your family as well.
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Ashleigh Reply:
September 1st, 2010 at 1:02 pm
Thanks so much for your prayers for us… this is my last living grandparent and I was close to all but one of them. I just can’t imagine being without any of them. Sigh. We still haven’t heard about the tests yet… just praying for peace and wisdom for all of it.
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Your blog is on my list of Favorites and one I check each day at work. I’m 7 months pregnant, Baby Boy is due November 1, and after he’s born I’ll be staying home with he and our 4 year old daughter. Lots of big, exciting (daunting?) changes coming for us.
I love reading your blog, it just feels ‘homey’. I don’t know you but sometimes feel like we’re old friends given your laid back and comfy way of putting things.
Praying for encouragement & blessings for you today!
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Ashleigh Reply:
September 1st, 2010 at 1:05 pm
Your words make me smile. :) You will LOVELOVELOVE your days of homey times with your little people!
And, Kerry? We ARE friends. Because we’re talking here, and so now we’re friends. <3
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Kerry Reply:
September 1st, 2010 at 3:36 pm
So sweet! Sending you a big virtual HUG!
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It’s September 1st, girl, pull out the fall decor!
I just ate a bag of Reese’s Pieces.
I bought some fresh green chili’s at the store the other day and I am currently looking for a recipe for Green Chili. Because it occurred to me the other day that you bringing it from Leadville isn’t practical. At all.
I bought a big bag of candy corns and I think I am going to hot glue them on a wreath. Last year I strung them together and made a garland, which was adorable.
I commented over at your moms, I am praying for your Grandma.
This ends my update :)
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Ashleigh Reply:
September 1st, 2010 at 1:06 pm
WELL. You may be right. But I can def. bring you a banana roll. Truly. I can. And I will.
And, OH, I love the candy corn idea! I need to find some good fall crafts to do with the boysies… we were uber crafty last year. Maybe they can do some… while I sew? :)
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Hey there Ash!
I am exacatly with you about randomness and not knowing what to write. Plus, we’re still at my parent’s house and their computer could.not.be.slower so it takes hours to do a post! Hopefully we’ll be going back home on Monday to get ready and wait for Dan to come home!
Speaking of going home, as SOON AS I GET THERE I am pulling out the fall decor!!! I never ever get sick of autumn decorations. My favorite thing to do in fall is paint brown polka dots on pumpkins, then tie a scrap of material or a ribbon around the stem. Depending on your pumpkin size, you just trace either a quarter, or a dime or whaterver (with a pencil) randomly scattered around your pumpkins, then paint the cirlces in. So SO fun and they look adorable by the front door with some mums.
Been shopping lately collecting things for Tyler’s big boy room. Air plane theme (go figure, huh!), blue distressed dresser, plane hanging from ceiling, galvanized tub for his laundry, reading corner with a bean bag chair, and if I’m really feeling artsy – I might paint an airplane on a big canvas for the wall. Must go to Ikea and finish getting some more accessories. I am having so much fun putting it all together!
So, that’s what I’ve been up to. That along with a lot else, but that’s the most exciting. :o)
Praying God will give you strength to make it through those “A Day” kind of days.
Love to you,
Christine
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Ashleigh Reply:
September 1st, 2010 at 1:11 pm
YES. PAINT THE CANVAS. That would be The Coolest EVAH. And then take pictures and post them, of course, so I can admire and wish I were you. :D
And WOOT WOOT for Dan coming home!!!
(I am clearly addicted to caps lock today)
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Hello Ashley!
Here is a (((hug)))! Middle of being in deployments with children is tough. My daughter’s father was in the Navy when she was born and he was lucky to be there for her birth.
I envy your Autumn starting. Living in Houston, I so crave autumn it is not even funny. I decorated a dish towel with an autumn scene on it this last weekend just to do something nice for myself.
I talk about my life being quietly lovely busy. I enjoy time with my family, sewing, gardening, cooking, baking, crocheting, reading, creating. Work gets in the way of doing the things I love. I no longer have a small child at home but a twenty four year old.
I hope your day goes well.
blessings,
elizabeyta
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Ashleigh Reply:
September 1st, 2010 at 1:12 pm
Your days sound heavenly. Can I join you? :)
I grew up in the desert, where fall was more a state of mind than a season. I SO feel you on that one. But we still decorated the house and lit spicy candles, because we NEEDED to.
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elizabeyta Reply:
September 3rd, 2010 at 12:04 pm
You are more than welcome :) There is blackberry buckle and tea in the teapot if you wish to share.
blessings,
elizabeyta
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Well, it’s good to take a break every now and then. We all need to occasionally :) So I understand.
I hope you have a lot of fun with sewing class. Even if it’s late ;)
*huggles* Being apart for another 7 months? I can’t imagine!!! Does he get to come home for Thanksgiving or Christmas? I pray so!!
Praying for your grandma; saw your Mom’s post a few days ago and have been praying for wisdom and for her healing.
Mmm, need chocolate too!! I like Kit-Kat’s cause they melt in your mouth. York’s are good. And of course a good deluxe chocolate bar is always exceptional! (Target usually has a good selection)
I hope we don’t get snow in October, but you Never know!! It’s been unusual this year. Very unusual. Feels like fall one day and summer the next. Back and forth.
I’m off to clean another house. Jac and I are almost overloaded with house cleaning jobs now!! Which is a wonderful feeling in these hard economic times though sometimes i want just one day at home. Maybe two. ;)
Love ya!
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Ashleigh Reply:
September 1st, 2010 at 1:14 pm
YAY for jobs!!
He’ll come for a bit late fall/early winter. HOORAY!
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Samantha R Reply:
September 1st, 2010 at 4:41 pm
*smiles*
I’m glad that you all at least get a few days together again this year. Even though it won’t be near enough time. But I suspect there will be lots of pictures when that time comes! =D
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Oh!oh! you should try my “energy cookies” … and they are so good for you you don’t even have to feel guilty about eating them!! :)
1 cup coconut oil (or butter if you wanna)
1 cup xylitol (or sugar)
1 cup brown sugar
4 Tbs. water
2 Tbs. ground flax seed
2 large farm fresh eggs
1 tsp. vanilla
2 cups Whole wheat flour
1 tsp. baking soda
1 tsp. sea salt
2 Tbs. nutritional yeast
3 cups oats
1 cup chocolate chips
Mix the water and flax seed and set aside for about 3 min. Mix your coconut oil and sugars, add eggs and flax mixture. Stir in all the rest of the ingredients … bake at 350 for about 8 or 9 min … then let cool on the pan 5 min. Store in the freezer for a quick easy treat when you have a chocolate attack!!! :)
I always love visiting your blog, Ashleigh! You have been blessed with such a gift of writing … you can quickly move me to tears or have me dissolving in giggles!! You, John and family are always in my prayers! I’ve just made friends with a new neighbor who’s husband is also in Afghanistan for a year … I’m going to try to share your blog address with her next time we chat I”m sure you would be an encouragement — she’s so lonesome!
take care –
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Ashleigh Reply:
September 1st, 2010 at 1:16 pm
I read that and literally said, “I NEED! I NEED! I NEED!” aloud. Because I am crazy and talk to myself.
I think we shall make these this week, since I also started an insane workout program last week and, um, energy? Yes, please.
And give your friend a hug or a kind word from this girl she doesn’t know, kay? Because this deployment thing = CRAZY.
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I’m praying for your grandma and crying over your mom’s post and wishing we could eat chocolate together and downloading that song on YouTube and thinking about the mending I (still) need to do and watching the rain come down outside and thinking about putting my sweater back on and I’m going to make a cup of tea and stop fighting with htaccess redirects because they are making my head hurt this afternoon.
And how soon is too soon to get out the autumn decor? Oh my dear girl, I still have a springy towel up in my kitchen! It’s been up ALL summer. Me and decorating so do not mix. :)
HUGS
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Ashleigh Reply:
September 1st, 2010 at 8:37 pm
I want your rain. :) I would be thrilled if we had a week of rain this week, but we’re not supposed to. I know that, come January, I’ll remember with great longing these sunny days, crisp though they may be.
I like decorating. I do not like mending. So I’ll decorate and you mend, mmkay?
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We’re currently planning a possible fall wedding (in New England! SQUEE!) and I’m having a blast compiling decor ideas. :-D It’s going to be so much fun…if the stress doesn’t overcome me. ;-) With the heat wave we’re having right now, it doesn’t feel like autumn, but I’m eager for it to arrive. Any relief from the 95 degree temps will be welcome!
I’m also currently trying really hard to figure out ways we can get married sooner and am praying that God just works things out. Okay, I need to pray more that He shows us what His will is and gives us wisdom, but I hope-hope-hope it includes a shorter timeline. ;-)
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Ashleigh Reply:
September 1st, 2010 at 8:39 pm
EEeee!!! Fall weddings are The Best! Congrats!
Yes, shorter engagements are always ideal… but I trust God will lead and direct and open and close doors according to His plan. <3
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Okay…so your like a warm cup a tea in the wee hours of the morning.
I’m slumping over the kitchen table trying to wake up from my day of school. Trying to picture my dresser full of clothes thinking of what to wear to school tomorrow and what to pack for lunch etc. And then I get on your blog and instantly I was home in my comfort zone soaking up your news and enjoying the random!
I am so praying for your grandmother. So. Praying.
Random.
Jeremy just discovered how to turn off and on the light switch! FUNNY!
You have inspired me to post on my own blog but lets just see if I do it.
I am almost through my second full week of school.
And I want to make your banana roll for a church dinner this Sunday.
And I really want this heat to end. And I am secretly getting nervous about hurriacne Earl and hoping he will just disapear! ;)
Love ya!
Ginger~
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Ashleigh Reply:
September 1st, 2010 at 8:42 pm
You are the sweetest evah.
How goes it with school so far?
You MUST make the banana roll. It is so very easy and looks like you slaved away. :)
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Well, it’s 37 degrees Celsius here today, which is not that much below your temps in Fahrenheit! Yikes!
Other randoms – I had a good adjustment at the chiropractor today.
I’m craving *something*, but I don’t know what. I can’t decide if I want sweet food or salty food or something healthy or… which is probably a sign that I really don’t need to eat anything.
Anyway, this would be a random comment alright. Sheesh. :S
Jen from Canada
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Ashleigh Reply:
September 1st, 2010 at 8:43 pm
I need to get to my chiro… woke up with an ubersore neck and can’t turn my head. Ha. That’s what I get for going three weeks without an adjustment.
What you want is a bag of Chex Mix with some M&M’s. Of course, now that’s what I want, too, and I haven’t any. :)
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Jen C Reply:
September 2nd, 2010 at 7:41 am
Except that you can’t buy Chex or Chex Mix in Canada. A tragedy, I know!
Every time I’m in the US, we buy a bunch of Chex (corn and rice) and rotel tomatoes. I’m sure that the customs agents I run into think I’m nuts (“I’d like to declare 3 shirts, 1 pair of pants, 1 book, 6 boxes of Chex and 6 cans of tomatoes”), but I’ve never had a problem getting through after the funny looks subside. :)
I hope your neck feels better soon!
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You’re wonderful. You are such a talented writer, such a good mother and totally in love with your husband. I know these times are hard. I’ve been wondering lately if I will feel like I’m “borrowing” my husband when he comes back. Because I know the leaving again will be on the horizon.
It’s definitely not the easy life, but it’s full. Full of love, passion, sorrow and gratitude for what we do have.
You are in my thoughts and prayers.
Amy
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Ashleigh Reply:
September 1st, 2010 at 8:45 pm
Yesterday I mentioned to my guy on the phone that he never has a moment to himself, alone, ever.
He replied, “You’d think I belong to the Marine Corps or something.” ;)
I think of you often… hoping you’re faring well. Yes, you are so right, this is a full life. Our highs and lows are more dramatic than most anyone else could imagine!
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I’m so sorry that your grandmother is sick. I’ve prayed for you-all.
I really enjoy your blog. Something about how you write just clicks for me. So however often you post, I’ll read =).
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Hey Ashleigh,
I am sorry to hear about your Grandma. It’s so hard to watch Grandparents grow older and face such difficult circumstances. Hang in there and let us know how we can pray.
Also…I’ve been wondering where you were on the Twitter. :) I totally understand in my own way though. Right now, all online stuff has taken a back seat to school. Hmm…it might even be in the trunk at this point. Haha. I rarely have time to read blogs anymore and I’m so glad I get yours via email.
Oh and…I so love the song. Thanks for sharing it. I hadn’t heard it before. I wonder if they have anything I can download from ITunes? Anyway, thank you for sharing.
As for deployment…well, I haven’t dealt with a year as a wife & mom of two, but I have dealt with the year thing before and it’s not fun. My only saving grace during that process was that I wasn’t in a military town and didn’t see the homecoming signs going up and down. I know it’s not easy. And I am sure that you reach moments in your day when you think you can do another minute, but you will make it.
You are a woman of great strength. You are gentle and humble…and yet so strong. Please know that He will carry you and the boys through. You and all my amazing friends who do this year after year with children are honestly my heroes.
Much love,
Elaina
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P.S. Is John’s unit keeping in touch with you either via a volunteer or the FRO?
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Hi!
I don’t usually comment, but…
1. I wanted to tell you that your grandmother will be in my prayers. Cancer is scary. My cousin & uncle (my cousins’s dad) were both diagnostic this past Feb with Stage IV lung cancer (did I mention they are non-smokers? and my cousin is 34 with a wife & three year old son?) Needless to say it has rock our family hard.
2. Trader Joe’s dark chocolate bars. I was never a chocolate fan until I was pregnant. Oh. My. Word. And now? I can’t get enough.
3. I’m a wee bit jealous of your weather. In LA it’s 100 degree with lovely smog. Awesome. We just drove through the Rockies on a little family vacation, and my husband and I talked (dreamed?) of selling everything and living where the air was clean.
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Random… I love random. :)
Starting school back up in less than a week… preparing for our 2-day reenactment in less than a month… (did you get the link? hope you guys can make it!!)… enjoying the cooler CO weather :)…. playing lots of sports before winter sets in (then the real sports… skiing and hockey, yay)… life is good! :)
Praying for you! And I think you should get the fall decor out… it cozies things up so much! :)
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Ashley honey, it is *NeVeR* too early for autumn decor!!! I love the suff personally, the deep reds, oranges and sage greens! Oh, and pumkins!!! You will have to post pics of your home after you have it all out!!!! Then grab a cup of apple cider and sit down and enjoy it all….
Fav… ANYTHING chocolate!
Praying of you, your Mom and your Grandma!
Blessings,
Rebecca
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i like your random.
and I can’t wait til your random comes closer to us here!
so I can hug you for REAL. instead of just thru comments :)
my random….
pug sleeping next to me – snoring
avoiding working on my new website
enjoying connecting w/blogs
happy time… my own time for the evening
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you are awesome.
that’s my random.
love you.
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Praying for you!!
Looks like you got lots of conversations on this post. :)
Not much new over here… I did just put a couple videos on Facebook though. :)
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Random is fun. I do random rather well.
Today, I have boiled 3.5lb of sweet potato, made some into a cake and frozen the rest. Now I have to do something about the 5kg of cheese in my fridge. Then onto the giant sack of apples we got free from a lady whose freezer we were buying. Wow, that sounds like all I do is cook – actually, I’m trying to use up everything perishable because we’re going away for a week tomorrow. Tomorrow morning I’ll be dropping my cat off at the veterinary hospital, where she’s going to board while we’re away, then coming home to grab suitcases and get to Heathrow, because I’m going to Canada!! (Well, technically my husband is going to a conference for work, and I’m tagging along, but still…) I’ve never been outside Europe, so I’m ridiculously excited.
Also, we’ve got a layover in Denver – any suggestions for killing a couple of hours?
I’m praying for you, John and the boys, and for your Grandma. I hope you get some news soon and that it’s positive.
xxx
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I’m not sure how I was led to your blog, other than giving credit straight to the Mighty one that leads us everywhere.
Our lives are just too similar for me to read your blog for a while and then click along to whatever comes next. Here’s my scoop: mom of 3 boys and twin daughters in heaven that I miscarried almost 4 years ago, my husband will be deployed with the Army for a year beginning 9/12, my dad decided to leave his family a few years ago to continue his adulterous relationship, and most importantly I’m a daughter of the King! Yeah, it isn’t just a cooincidence that I clicked my way here along a random internet path. My hubby isn’t full time military, so finding someone who is going through deployment and leaning on Christ to get her through is a gift. Thank you for sharing your thoughts, and both moments of weakness and strength. I’ll be checking in with you often.
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Thinking of you and wishing you grace. {{big hugs}} <3
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Hi Ashleigh! I just love your blog. :D I’ll be praying for you. :) Keep on Keeping on.
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Hey you,
Such a fun little post. As for us – we’ve started school and so far it going good. :) Oh, and In three weeks we will be heading out to your old stomping grounds for a couple of days (the kids can’t wait to play at Legoland and eat at Ruby’s) then we’ll head up north to visit our old stomping grounds. It should be fun… it will be the first time back “home” since we moved here.
Sometimes a break from the internet (intended or not) is so good for us mentally and emotionally. You know, one of these days we are just going to have to make some coffee time happen.
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Oh, I’ve missed you! I’d like to send you a big ol’ Cadbury Dairy Milk bar right about now.
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:) Miss you!! My random…
-Can’t keep up with the laundry, yet my kids still never seem to own enough clothes hehe.
-I yell too much and wonder why the kids yell at each other…then go to bed with a heavy heart determined to do better the next day with God’s help.
-Sometimes my shower doesn’t happen until Brian gets home from work (eww I know)
-Secretly long for a 3 day get-away by myself..but miss my kids after 3 hours
-Have a nine year old that asks for snuggle time with me
-staying away from people who try to out-do one another
-Being REAL with MYSELF about my relationship with the Lord- loving that no one else’s opinion of me counts with Him.
-I’m Learning to embrace the things I do well and not stress so much on the things I don’t. Time is flying too fast to break my neck to reinvent myself into something God never intended for me to be.
-We went back to homeschooling this year using Abeka DVDs again…for a few reasons, but the biggest one is that it is just plain easier with 4 children and all the homework etc that goes with Abeka to cut out the hour and a half drive time, uniform prep, lunches, signing a bazillion papers and all the stuff that goes along with school. But, I would send them back in a heartbeat if God said so. I missed my girls…so.much.they missed me more. So, we will still take it a year at a time on that and just see what the Lord has planned for us. Yep…random *smile* :)
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