Sometimes, I think that if our days around here can be this eventful now, with one 18 month old boy, WHAT IS TO COME???
Maybe you all shouldn’t answer that question. My heart may not be able to handle it.
What, ask you, am I referring to?
Yesterday, peeps.
The morning began as most Friday mornings around here…the only difference of yesterday was that I’d come down with a cold the day before and had slept nary a wink the night before. I woke up to find my amniotic fluid leaking and the contractions that have come and gone with more regularity the past week continuing, a bit more definite. We’re in the “any time now” mode, but I wasn’t too worried at this point. With Troy, my water leaked for three days before it broke, and the contractions haven’t felt too “real” yet.
Troy and I had a whole list of errands to run, some shopping for labor supplies in there as well, so I figured we’d leave early and get them done and over with. Because, you know, I knew I’d be worn out in the afternoon, and was already looking forward to nap time.
We had a Mommy and Troysie breakfast date first, then hit Target, the little kids’ barber shop, Trader Joes, with a few little stops in between.
While I was unloading groceries at home, my next door neighbor–the only neighbor we really know and have a relationship with–pulled out of her driveway and we stopped to chat for a few minutes about them checking on our dog when the baby’s born. Then she drove away. Remember that, ‘kay? She was gone now.
I went inside and starting unloading the grocery bags while Troy played with his toys in the living room. The empty paper bags were all over the floor, toys strewn about and some full Target bags sitting in a pile.
I went out back to put a few things in the garbage can, leaving the sliding door open a few inches. On my way back in, I stooped over to pick up the dog’s water dish to fill…
And heard the door slide closed. And heard a click.
My heart stopped.
There was Troy, grinning at me from inside the door he had just closed and locked.
I pulled on the door, just in case. Please, Lord? It wouldn’t budge.
Trying not to panic, I went around to the front door, thinking that maybe since I’d just been unloading groceries, I’d left it unlocked.
Nope.
Then I went ahead and started to panic.
I went back around to the slider door, only to peer in and find Troy standing on a kitchen table chair, dancing around. I called through the glass to “get down.” He smiled a wide smile at me and repeated, “Det doon! Det Doon!” Then he waved and sweetly called out, “Hiii!”
Once he was on the floor again, I ran next door, thinking that just maybe there would be someone home at our neighbors’.
Nope.
I ran back to the back yard to check on Troy again. I didn’t see him. The sense that did kick in was my sense of smell as I looked down and saw that my brown flats had apparently landed in a fresh pile of dog poop. Ahem.
Troy appeared from around the corner. I cleaned off my shoe the best I could and saw that he was sitting on the floor playing with his See n’ Say.
This little man has just recently figured out how to turn on light switches, because he’s just barely tall enough to push them up. But he’s not tall enough to turn them back off. The back door lock is, SIGH, very similar to a light switch. I kept trying to coax him to open the door, tapping on the door and saying, “Open it, Troy… open the door.”
I ran back to the front and went to the next door over. No answer. The next door. No answer.
NINE doors later and multiple trips into the back yard to check on Troy, a door finally opened.
I didn’t know what exactly the purpose of the hanging flowers above the front door were at that house, though it made a little more sense when the young woman who opened the door turned out to clearly be a devout Hindu…. who barely spoke English.
I asked if I could use her phone to call my husband… feeling a mixture of panic and ridiculousness as I explained that my toddler had locked me out of the house. She sweetly lent me her phone and I called John–whom I knew to be in the middle of some things he really couldn’t get out of that day and at least thirty minutes away from home. He suggested seeing if I’d locked the truck and could perhaps open the garage, and that MAYBE the garage-to-house door would be unlocked, too.
My Hindu neighbor assured me that I could use her phone again if this plan didn’t work, and I ran back across the street. The truck was unlocked…. the garage-to-house door wasn’t.
I checked on Troy again–by this time it was nearing forty minutes he’d been alone in the house. It is a very odd feeling looking inside one’s house through a window, seeing your child in there, and having no way of getting inside. Once again I couldn’t see him. I could hear his little voice through an open upstairs window. Then I saw, through the banister railing, his little blonde head, sitting half way up the stairs. He was crying pitifully. “Mama. Mama?? Mama? Out’ide? Mama?”
I was close to tears myself.
On my way running back to my neighbor’s house I realized that in my running back and forth, I’d done something again to the foot I’d hurt two weeks before. Now I was hobble-running with a big ol’ belly back and forth across the street. I’m sure to anyone watching from their own window, it was quite the comical sight. To me… not so much.
I called John again. He said he was on his way home, but that it would be close to a half hour before he was even here. He said I might have to call the fire department.
Oh, YES. That was JUST what I wanted. The fire department to show up at my house, arousing the curiosity of our whole little community (though it might seem me and my Hindu neighbor were the only ones HOME on this Friday afternoon) and tell them my toddler had locked me out of my house. I’m a fireman’s daughter. To me, this sounded as absurd as calling them to get a cat out of a tree.
I decided to run–er, uh, to hobble-run-limp–back to check on Troy again before calling 911. Ahem. I thought maybe I could think of some new brilliant idea in the meantime.
He was still crying on the stairs. I banged on the window to get his attention, finally convincing him to come downstairs and over to the door. I tapped on the door again, asking him to pleeeeease, Troy-Troy, open the door! See this switch? Pull it down!!
Suddenly he seemed to get the idea. He was pulling on the handle, then saw the lock. He started pulling… and pulled it down–then pushed it right back up again.
I thought I was going to die.
I applauded and praised. Try again!
This time I was also pulling on the door from my side. He pushed up… the door slid open.
A sigh of relief would be a HUGE understatement.
I scooped up Troy, called John to tell him all was well…
…and decided it was just. about. nap. time.
John decided it might be a good idea to have a hide-a-key somewhere on our property. I think I agree.










Ohhh… forgive me, but I can’t help but laugh. Life is never dull, no.
But only you could have made that sound so hilarious! :D
*HUGS*
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Oh… my… goodness… I hardly know what to say, other than “THAT LITTLE STINKER!”
Poor momma! ::hugs::
This is one of those life-time stories. Travis and his brothers have lots of them. ;) What is it about boys?
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Oh my goodness, I would have been a WRECK!!!! Makes me think ‘what if’, and realize that we aren’t completely “baby-proofed”! Things get put-off since we’re ‘always watching him’ – Ugh, how scarey not being able to get to him!
Yes, that’s a story you’ll tell for many years to come!! Thanks for sharing! Your little Troy sounds like SUCH a CUTIE!!!! (& smart boy too!)
P.S. We won’t be coming tomorrow (as you probably could have surmised from my previous post), but we would love to come in the next few weeks depending on baby/etc.
Oh, I was WRONG about daylight savings. I knew it was on one of my scrap dates… but not tomorrow. I think it’s on the 4th.
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Oh man, I could so relate. *hugs*
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Oh goodness. That is such a funny story (because it didn’t happen to me).
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ohhhhh, you poor mama!! it really is too crazy what you’re going through!! :) may you grow in grace and patience through it all.
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Next time, call 911!! LOL
Love,
Your Mama, the fireman’s wife : )
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Oh, Ashleigh, I would have been so upset… that kind of thing really adds gray hair to a mama. :) I am so glad everything worked out in the end, but I am sure you are still shaking a little inside…
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I am so glad you are back inside and safe.
You can tell a great story. I was holding my breath through the whole thing.
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Oh, you poor thing! :) You are the best story teller! Hope you have recovered!
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Can I just say that my heart was racing along with yours AND I was laughing because I know EXACTLY what an 18 month old face looks like when they have achieved….shall we say…..”independence”. Being a military wife myself (retired now 4 years) I also know the ghost town of base housing. Of course, if your neighbors are anything like mine were, since you stay home and “DON’T WORK” you can sit pets, kids or drive people around because you have nothing better to do. hee hee.
I feel for ya girl. :-) Something to look back on when you are on the civilian side of life and laugh until you cry!!! :-)
P.S. If you are in base housing you know you can always call the housing office to get someone to let you in….at least that is how it worked for us.
P.S.S. Praying for you and baby!!!!!! Blessings and Shalom to you and yours!!!
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lol, I had to laugh. You poor thing!
Your story reminded me of a beautiful childrens book called “Alfie Gets in First” by Shirley Hughes. You should try and find it.
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Oh, how frightening! And you make it so funny! :)
I babysat a boy who locked me out of the house once, that was an experience as well…
Ashleigh, I have mostly been a silent reader, but today I had to comment and tell you what a blessing you are. I love your joy and your attitude! I will keep you in my prayers, God bless you!
~Jen
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Oh your poor thing – it seems like that would have been enough to send you into labor. Thank goodness that didn’t happen!
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What a story! The things we think will never happen to “us” – and yet, sure enough – we have some stories to tell!
Praying for you as the days/weeks pass – can’t wait to hear about the arrival of Merritt!!
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….one time I left our front door open while we were two hours away for the whole day….and we were living in the city of Pittsburgh instead of the suburb we now live in. My father almost had a conniption fit! Luckily our neighborhood wasn’t as bad as it was when we moved so nothing happened. I’ve been reading your blog for awhile now…haven’t commented a lot but I sorta look to you as an older sister teaching the younger (indirectly of course) No offense or anything but I have about eight-ten years before I’m going to be a wife and/or mother so I just wanted to say I really look up to you from what I’m reading on your blog and that you’re a great example (besides my Mum, of course) to me of a Godly wife and mother. God Bless, Ashleigh!!
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I feel kind of bad for laughing, because I’d have been soooooo upset and worried if I was a mama and my eighteen-month-old locked me out of the house, BUT … I did laugh! You tell the stories of your life with so much so enthusiasm, it’s impossible not to laugh (and sometimes cry, but then laugh again!). I’m glad everything worked out well …
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I was trying not to laugh at your situation, but I just couldn’t help it!! I did laugh until the part where Troy was sitting on the stairs crying. That broke my heart for the little fellow. But then I got cracked up again when you made the comment about people watching you from their windows. Now, I know you were referring to your neighbors, but all I could think of was the Lord, sitting up in Heaven, watching all of this take place while He kept a protective eye on Troy. So, what lesson do you think He was teaching you, Ashleigh??
~Kristi
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I was waiting for this blog! On Sat. when Bethany told us this story I thought to myself this would happen to you! I then started laughing and everyone said “what” I said “could you imagine seeing a 9 month pregnant woman running back and fourth inbetween houses, and then to hear the story,” we all giggled! Im so sorry you got locked out that had to have been so scary but it made a great story!!!!!
Love you!
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Wow! Poor Miss Ashleigh! So now have we taught Troy the meaning of on/off and up/down? I hope it doesn’t happen again, but all the same, it sure was funny to read!
– Rebekah
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I am so sorry that you had to go through all that!
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Oh the memories! haha… I got locked out of the house by a three year old 3 consecutive times in one single solitary week. Fortunately it wasn’t as drawn out or traumatic as the two times that week he locked us out of the single, solitary bathroom with no external access to pick the lock. What’s with the locks and little boys?!
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