Ever since this post, I’ve received several questions, emails and comments about cloth diapering, and rather than keep writing emails, I’m going to answer in a post.
So, to those of you who think I’m a Crazy Nut, feel free to skip this post. Unless, of course, you want to just confirm what you already thought and what we all know to be true.
But before you go thinking I’m a complete loon, let me just say that I use cloth diapers because I actually like them. Truly. I’m not lying. And so does John. In fact, he’s more into it than I am–which is definitely saying something. There’s just something so… nice, for lack of brain power to think of a better word… about putting a soft cotton diapie on little baby buns. Add that to the enormous amount of $$$$ saved by being able to “re-use” your diapers rather than tossing them, and I’m hooked. I even like washing and folding the diapers, believe it or not. It just works for us.
Now, do I LIKE rinsing yucky diapers in the toilet…. uh, no. But we’ve honestly had more total blow-outs (the kind that require the clothes themselves to be either rinsed out or tossed) in disposable diapers than we have in cloth.
There’s a half a million other reasons why I like cloth, but it really doesn’t matter. Because if you want to use ‘em, you’re going to and you’ll have your own reasons, and if you don’t, then you won’t. So profound, I know. But the one thing I must say is that we prefer balance to militancy, and don’t see cloth diapering as being a matter of biblical importance.
So here’s the answers to the questions.
- When did you start using cloth? The majority of our diapers were given to us as baby gifts before Troy was born (we had registered at cottonbabies.com) and then we just added to our “stash” little by little as we needed bigger sizes. But for the first couple weeks, while we figured out, you know, how to be PARENTS, we just used, GASP, disposables. We don’t know when we’ll start putting the new baby in cloth this time… maybe sooner, since we’re pretty used to it now, or maybe later, being that we will have two little people in diapers.
- What kind of diapers do you use? We’ve tried several brands and types of diapers, and we have found that we’re just plain ol‘ prefolds and covers kind of people. We love our Chinese prefolds and our Prowraps covers, and we just use a hemp doubler at night. We originally used about 24 regular (small) prefolds and four Bummis covers, but as soon as Troy grew out of the smaller sized Bummis, we switched to Prowraps because they have a “gusset” around the legs that greatly helps in reducing leaks. This is the same reason we weren’t too impressed with our FuzziBunz… Troy wore them most often at night and almost always leaked out of them. Now that he’s older and eats solid food all the time, that isn’t really a problem, and Bummis work well, but for newborns and infants, I’d strongly recommend the Prowraps or something similar. (I haven’t yet tried the “next big thing”–the BumGenius diapers–so I can’t give any sort of info on those. I’m hoping to try a couple with the new baby, though, just for fun.)
- How many diapers do you buy to begin with? The most sought-after Q&A! I searched and searched for an answer to this one before we had Troy, and could never quite find the perfect answer. We ended up with about two dozen of the small prefolds and four newborn sized covers. We washed diapers about every other day with this, although I’d say it’s better to have a few more covers than that. In the beginning, having only four caused us a little stress at times. We also had four of the small sized hemp liners for nights. Troy was terrible when it came to diaper changes during the night (you’d think we were seriously hurting him or something), so we tried to keep those to a minimum, but in the first few months, at least one change a night is usually a necessity. Thus more than two hemp liners for those night times diapers. By the time we needed to get the next size up of anything, we had a better idea of what we needed, didn’t need, wanted more of, or thought we’d try, so it’s a bit easier the second time through.
- How do you wash your diapers? The best and most FUN question of them all. :wink: There are about as many “right” ways to wash diapers as there are cloth diaper users… but, just for the record, here’s what we do…. when we change a diaper, it gets rinsed if needed/dirty and then goes directly into the dry pail. (Along with the wipes, if you’re using cloth wipes… which we haven’t with Troy, and plan to begin doing once this bebe has arrived.) One Very Helpful Thing is using these liners in your diapers once your baby is eating solid foods. Breastmilk poop is water soluble and doesn’t always need to be rinsed, but once the baby is eating solids, it’s absolutely necessary, and these liners save a TON of yucky rinsing. Just pull out the liner and flush it. Diapering bliss. :) When it’s time to wash, I dump the diapers into the washer and do a couple hour cold soak with about a quarter cup of baking soda. Then I do a spin cycle to get rid of the rinse water and switch the washer to HOT before doing a regular wash with regular detergent. When the washer hits the rinse cycle, I add a splash of vinegar, then finish the whole thing up with a second regular rinse cycle. As for drying… the very best thing is hanging your diapers on the line to dry–the sun bleaches them and keeps them fresh and white. We still haven’t got our line put up since we moved, so I’m still using the dryer for our diapers. No fun. (Covers should never be put in the dryer though… it can ruin them.)
So, if you’re still with us…
I can’t think of much else that’s really important, except for remembering the fact that cloth diapering is a system, and as such, has to be one that works for you. This is just what works for us and Troy… ask me again when the new baby is six months old and I’m sure I’ll have different recommendations or ideas.
Hope this answers some of those questions… if not, ask some more. If you’re already a cloth user, I’d love to hear your fav’s, your likes and dislikes… or any info I’ve missed.
To the rest of you, I’m impressed if you’re still reading. :)
And back to normal blogging we go….










Great post! Cloth diapers are SO much better for the earth as well. God gave us a wonderful place to live, so one should always do their part to take care of it. I don’t have children yet, but your post has encouraged me to try cloth diapers! Thank you!
Abbey
[Reply]
oh–and I would never think one is a “loon” for using cloth diapers! I think it’s smart! It may not work for other people, but it works for you, so that’s great!
Abbey
[Reply]
Heehee, your washing system is much more complex than mine. ;-) I just rinse/wash/rinse. Sometimes I’ll throw vinegar in there if I have any. I wish I could line dry (although, the BumGenius do better in the dryer because PUL thrives on heat to keep from cracking) but we have simply have way too many damp days up here. I don’t think I’ve ever seen a clothes line in my travels about Alaska. ;-)
[Reply]
Oh great post! I love it. :) Now you did say that rinsing is always absolutely necessary with messier diapers once babies are eating solids and I hate to be argumentative, but I’ve found that it isn’t! That’s right, I hardly ever *ever* rinse (potty dunk, rinse, whatever you wanna call it) my diapers. I shake out what I can without touching any sort of water (potty or otherwise) and what is too sticky, tarry, or mushy to come out? Well… I just throw it right with my other diapers into the wash and my washer has taken care of it *every time*. I know that probably sounds horrifying to so many people but I promise it actually really works and I read about it as being a valid option and doesn’t hurt the washer or the other diapers.
There have been those very rare diapers that were such messes that even I couldn’t bring myself to throw it into the wash but it has been maybe once a month (if that) and otherwise, I haven’t rinsed any diapers at all! The washing machine truly takes care of it and my diapers come out clean, fresh, and (believe it or not) WHITE!
Just thought I’d throw that in there. :)
~Rebecca J.
[Reply]
Now that you say that, Rebecca, I can totally see how that would be true… now that Troy is eating only solids (and is about at the same stage as Claire), I could probably do the same thing. I started using the liners during that “in-between” stage, when the poopies were still icky-wet and yet not like breastmilk poop. I honestly hadn’t really thought of doing it differently now, lol. Thanks for the input!
Also, if you see this–last time we “talked” about it, you were using your dryer to dry… do you have issues with your diapers being stained? I never had problems with that while I was line drying, and now that my diaps are looking a little dingy after just a few weeks (maybe I’m too picky, tho?), I’m contemplating using bleach in a load… but not sure yet.
[Reply]
No! I’ve had no stains so far. Granted I haven’t been cloth diapering for extremely long (a month? two? Can’t remember!) but I have no line-drying options and the dryer has worked great and we’ve gotten zero stains to date. :)
~Rebecca
[Reply]
Yeah- the first time I decided to brave it and throw one of *those* diapers into the wash (having read that it would be fine!) I cringed! But I decided to give it an honest try. I was a bit worried though! However when I saw that every bit of it came clean just as if I had pre-rinsed I got braver and haven’t looked back since! I had read on diaperpin.com that many moms have discovered that what can’t be shaken out *will* come out in the washing machine. I didn’t believe it at first, but I do now!
~Rebecca
[Reply]
I loved this post as well! I, too, love cloth– so much softer for baby bottom, and no chemicals to worry about, and no landfills to fill with non-biodegradable stuff– love washing, folding, buying, etc. It’s fun! Just started stocking up for the new baby, it’s so fun! (I didn’t have NB size, since we started Jake at 3-months old, he was already in sz1.) So yah, I’m crazy about cloth, but I’m also not a cloth nazi. I use the same imse vimse liners as you (love them!)– & not sure if u know, but they’re washable! If it wasn’t soiled, just wet, then I throw it in the pail with the diapers and it goes through my entire (3-cyle) wash process and in the dryer too. After I use it the 2nd time, I toss it whether soiled or not. My washing is similar but I usually don’t need to rinse (liners take care of it) and I don’t use vinegar- Just Charlie’s Soap and Baking Soda. Cold cycle, Hot cycle, & Cold. I’m looking for a clothes line but they’re so expensive! So I dry in dryer, and about every week or two I put them outside (draped over every patio chair/etc that we have!) to get some sun. No stain or smell problems with this method, and wash every 2-3 days. -Megan
[Reply]
Ash, I *love* that you love cloth diapering. I loved reading this post..ha! :) I really did-it was so well written and I am sure would be very helpful and well received in a parenting mag! Cloth diapering is something that I know I would have really enjoyed if I had taken the time to get into the system as you mentioned. I am sure there is a wonderful warm fuzzy that goes along with diapering in fresh smelling soft cotton. :)
[Reply]